Thank you Mr. Bond! I read up on gaslighting & infidelity and I understand.

Is it possible that he is not answering questions or wanting to talk about everything because he thinks I would not consider taking him back? I know this is probably mind reading & he should be prepared for the consequences of his actions. And I know that he most likely had sex with Ow. But why does he not want to answer? Is it common that he feels what happened during separation is irrelevant because we were "separated"?

He left the burner phone here with me. Does anyone know if I can access a Sprint cell phone that is on a corporate account?

Thanks!


H:40
Me:35
D5
S4
S3 months
Married 8 years Together 17 years
BD: 5/23/2014