okay well that was certainly in interesting conversation. I was taking my lunch walk and I ran into the lady from HR. Briefly asked her what the health insurance pays as far as IC (still on EAP right now). She told me everything then asked a weird question. She asked "How old is your wife?" I told her she jst turned 30. She asked if she had a mini (or full) MLC and I said a lot of the signs started pointing to it. The next thing I know she is in full confessional mode about her husband and herself just turning 30 and going through all these changes. IT mirrored my wife almost to a T, except her H is mentally abusive and controlling. I really didn't know what to say except she needed to get some help and talk to someone.
Anyway it was really interesting having her tell me all of this and how it related to what my W is going through right now.
Update, well it's been two days since I sent the buyout for the house to the W, she has yet to respond (probably getting it checked out I am sure). Once she agrees to the buyout I assume she will push hard to get the D signed. I guess I have a question to the people that actually signed the D and still hope or got back together. If it comes to that point should I write a letter saying just because we are D now it doesn't change that I still want to work on it? I know that isn't detaching, but I really need some guidance there. I will ask more specifics when it gets to that point but just to put my mind at ease I figured I would ask
Me 34 W 30 T 13 M 8 BD 7/27/14 EA Confirmed 8/6/14 S 8/2/14 D Imminent
I quote the immortal words of Socrates who said "...I drank what?"
