The "heavy" part of the convo ended and we spent the next 20 minutes shooting the sh!t and laughing (as we always do). (I just don't get how she doesn't see our connection.)
It appears that this isn't a connection for W. It is friendship. And you can't control that. And it probably isn't helpful to think an analyst or hormones or meds are going to change that.
You've told her you are there for her if she wants to talk. Now detach and let her take her journey. She knows where to find you.
me: 45 W:45 M 20 years T 22 years S14, S13, S11, D9 BD 2/28/14 D papers served 3/3/14 I moved out 3/15/14 MC start 4/2/14 I moved in 6/2/14 D suit withdrawn 6/30/14