Nitaf,

Yes h and I have always had contact...longest I went without contacting him was 8 days the entire time we'd been separated. I was bad in that I forced communication on him though I could hear him on the other end telling our son no I don't want to talk to mom...I made son give him the phone.

As of June 03 though when I started db'ing, I've not contacted him, waited for him to call. If I call him now it is with a legitimate question or concern not to find out where he is...if he doesn't call me back now I don't care I go on. In the past I would call him until I got him and then drive to his place for good measure...bad me.

Cindy