Originally Posted By: claire7


But work is feeling good and I'm keeping the house running, so it's ok if i am a little sad now and then. This is something to be sad about. And I can have a sad moment and move on.



I know how very hard it is to find positives when everything seems so negative but you did it here!!!

I find that sometimes even the tiniest accomplishment, I give myself a pat on the back for. Yesterday I emptied the dishwasher after letting it sit for almost two days... I rewarded myself with an at home facial. Seriously. After emptying the dishwasher.

But I needed it. Finding motivation to keep on truckin' is hard. I find myself rewarding D7 for all kinds of great things throughout the day, why not myself?!


M: 37 H: 36
M: 13 T: 18
D: 7
Bomb: 6/30/14
Separation: 8/11/14

Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve.