Amazing isn't it once things start happening. I wanted to tell you that I dreamt about you the other night. Have no idea what the dream was about but I remember what you looked like. It would be too weird if indeed the picture in mind matched a picture of you.
Cindy.....I continue to follow your sitch....CUZ I am so happy for you. Yeah on the move in plan for June...he is on a positive roll. He finally woke up!! You have done such a great job over the past 2 years. Keep us posted. BTW, how was your birthday dinner??
Keep on doing what you are doing....it's working girlfriend!! Mooka
I left my h October 02, filed Nov 02 and he moved to his own place Dec 02...so I guess 1 year 6 months...we are still separated in that we live in separate homes. We get an apartment June 1, 04.
H and I ended up going to the Alamo Drafthouse to see Secret Window...it was fun since I'd never been to the Drafthouse. You can actually order food during the movie!
Sunday we spent most of the day driving around looking at houses. It was fun but difficult with the boys along...they didn't take too well to sittin in the car for 4 hours! Oh, well we got to see some nice huge houses...one we particularly liked has a huge porch on 2 sides and huge yard with a white fence. It has a basement too. We may make an offer on that one.
We also saw one in the next city that was 2 stories, corner lot for $124,000. We liked it too.
All in all I guess we are moving right along!
Did have some moments of inner crisis because of the gal next door. I wish I'd never found the note she'd written h cause now I just see her as two-faced! I don't like the fact that she knew h was married, knew I was working on the marriage, knew I was over to see h a lot but still tried to have a relationship with him. Now when they talk or her kids just come into the apartment to talk to h I find myself really disliking her. I'm civil but don't see a friendship with her. last night her and h were sitting on their own balconies talking at each other...I could hear them from where I was lying in the bedroom. When I went outside, she went into her apartment. I had to remind myself that h is with me now...not her. But it doesn't help the fact that I don't trust her. She is suppose to be moving away...since I overheard h asking her if she'd found an apartment yet. Arrrgghhh!
Oh, well other than that it was a good weekend.
Oh, I did appear cool as a cucumber when I came outside and busted up ow and h's convo! Oop, sorry babe didn't see you convo with ow...my bad !
Sounds as though you 2 had a good week-end! Glad to hear it. About the OW (neighbor)...you handled that perfectly. don't let onto H what you think of her...just keep up the confident, sexy, friendly attitude....afterall, that's soooooo appealing.
Good job, I guess the DBing continues on throughout the M...good changes are here to stay! Mooka
I left my h cause he was a lump that wanted to not come home some nights. He ignored the kids and I every day. he was emotionally unavailable and neglectful. He's been that way for 12 years...I finally left. I filed for d cause on top of the separation he decided he needed some condoms that he refused to explain (he has a vascetomy).
He had not said ILY to the boys and me but twice in 12 years.
Now he sings a different tune...he's actually taking off saturdays to attend our boys' soccer games! A first ever to take a day off for anything of that nature. He's also more affectionate and he TALKS!
not saying that leaving will produce the same results in every case but it worked for me. I wouldn't recommend it in hindsight either.
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