Brook, I happen to have lots of experience with Asperger's!!
When you contact her, be SPECIFIC...sometimes D12 isn't being a jerk, she just doesn't understand what others are asking of her because she is sooooooo much more literal than the rest of the world.
One time, I was teaching her about Rome and the expression "All roads lead to Rome" came up...she argued with me for 45 minutes because that's just not true. You can't follow our road in Ohio to Rome.
Be specific, ask for what you need...she actually may respond more easily and more willingly because she isn't being forced to read unrecognizable social games/cues. Just ask for what you want. See what happens.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson