I am following through and the paperwork is started. H said to me now that there is no use because he asked me not to go to L and I did so now we have to proceed.. That sounds like someone who doesn't want to do the work. When he did say he didn't want a D I asked him what he was willing to do so it doesn't happen again. He said he would rather "gouge out his eyes than go to counseling"
So you really think this M can be saved. I worked my butt off 4 yrs ago and DB'd to my best. Hes been home for 3 and here he goes again. Can someone really change when they have cheated twice?
