Well, looks like the BGP's are coming out. She just got offered a promotion to double her salary, and was told she's next in line for a regional management position covering 2 possibly 3 states. Crazy how that happens when separation becomes a bit more real. She's got a big event that I was supposed to go to in 9 days that the OM will be working too, so I just can't bring myself to go. Anybody have any experience with something like this happening, as in, what she might do next now that she will have a larger income and contribution to joint bills?