What is weird, after meeting the OM in person for the first time, and seeing how much of a mousey loser he is. I see that she just found someone to stop her from being lonely. It has really helped me to detach.
Though I will say, that many times I feel that since she is the one who left, she is the one who made the choice to destroy our marriage that she isn't feeling anything.
After seeing her in person, I see that she is a hot mess. Mood swings, Anger, having to actually take care of the kids, herself, and a job is turning out to be to much.
Her life with me was a really good life. She has to hate that I'm starting to thrive without her.
Me: 35 Her: 33 D : 16 S : 9 Together: 14 years Married: 12 She left 4/14/2014 Separated: 5/25/2014 OM Confirmed 7/2014 She filed 8/7/2014 I Filed 10/21/2014 Divorce final 2/12/2015
