I would not even try to make assumptions regarding OM and how he may or may not be a part of your W's future. That is just going to eat at you and cause you heartache for no reason.

Believe me, if you two have had a long break and are just now having increased contact, she is most likely having the same emotional whirlwinds.

Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16