Maybell, Go to your luch. Right now you are experiencing the same doubts we all feel from time to time. Sometimes more often than not! It is easy to dwell on the negatives. But remember, our S have their own list of negatives about us, and we are doing EVERYTHING we can to try and get them to forget about our negatives and focus on our positives. So we at least owe them the same courtesy. I think it is easy for the LBS to focus on our WAS negatives because it makes it easier for us to accept them not being around anymore. But I promise if you spent the same amount of time focusing on all the positives, you would be a tearful mess right now missing the most wonderful H the world could have known. So I get the focusing on negative aspect.

Go to your lunch. Put on your PMA. Be the best Maybell you can be. Be the Maybell he fell in love with. Worry about HIS negatives IF you get to a point where HE is willing to address/work on them. It happens!!


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16