Maybe I am too new at this, but responsibility for what? For my W's MLC? For the flaws in OR that led to the A? For her inability to assert herself? For not being jealous enough when this guy was around? for not forgiving her sooner after the A?
Please explain to me (in detail) how it will help my current sitch. I am not understanding how it will help. If I take more responsibility for my role in A, then....