I would say quit trying to 'plan' how you will act and just be your best self. Be at your best. Look your best, smell your best, and act your best. Act like you did when you two first fell in love. Be a reminder to what he used to want. Remember, he is a guy. He is more primal than you women. You are worried about being vulnerable. He is motivated by your beauty, by scent, by his desire to be with the hottest and best 'catch' in the room. Be that catch!


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16