sieze the moment ss. If the time is right tonight to have wine, then have wine. If it goes really well, WHILE it is going well, suggest sushi for tomorrow. Maybe not so directly, but something like... 'Remember when we had sushi last XXX i really wish I had tried the XXX roll.' or something like that. If your H has any sense to him, he will get the hint and ask YOU to sushi.

do not put off an opportunity today because maybe he is wanting something today as well, and if it does not happen, he gets in a sour mood because of it (just as we LBS do) which makes tomorrows sushi an even bigger hill to climb.

you can do this!!


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16