Funny I thought H might be upset seeing her lovey with her H too- maybe he's still dealing in EA withdrawal....
Thanks for the perspective on him gaslighting also-!at first I was feeling bad and ashamed that I became emotional and vulnerable but then something clicked. I had known it intellectually but finally emotionally I saw and felt how I had made so much progress on my issues and he was stuck. And I actually got peeved at how bad he was making me feel about it all to deflect from his own discomfort. At least he finally came back a few days later and said it was all him and I did nothing wrong.
We shall see how things shake out over the next several months. D or not I am going to be great and focus on me! I think I'm finally moving from faking it to making it.
Me 41 H 40 M 20 T 23 S 19,16, 8 D 13 BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015 Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown
