Job, I was thinking exact same thing about the card. I was not going to send it ahead of time, I would only send it after the wedding. I’m not expecting an invitation, and it is late anyway, the wedding is this weekend. If I send a card (have not decided on it 100% yet), it would be my way of saying that I’m a bigger person.

Thanks for your kind words again. I’m feeling better these days, just trying to process some new feelings that started to surface. Cannot fully explain what they are yet. I’m patient though.

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state