Talked to the WAW today. We had an issue 2 years ago and she left for a week. She came back and we started a remodel of the house. She said when we were finished the remodel everything went back to the same as it was. She said she wished we had been able to resolve the issues back then. I believe we were not capable of resolving them because we were not aware of how incapable we were of communicating. DR is helping me with this problem of not communicating. I hate it that me learning to communicate may not be used with my wife. I can't stand the thought that the things I am learning could possibly benefit my next relationship instead of with the woman I am so in love with right now.
She is mad at me right now because I completed the PADI Scuba Diving certification last weekend. It is something she has always wanted me to do and I was not open to trying it.
I wish she wanted to resolve our issues instead of saying its over and done with.
