Nothing really new to report. Haven't had any real contact with W other than her telling me that she was canceling our joint phone plan and she wanted to give me some advance notice. Went on my own cell phone plan over the weekend. Other than that, just keeping on.
I do have a question that I'd like to ask. W has been moved out for almost 3 months now, and during that time, I've had limited contact with her, and generally only when she initiates (texting about something, dropping belongings off, etc). At what point (if at all) should I start initiating some contact? Things like sending her a fun, lighthearted text, or seeing if she wants to grab a bite to eat for lunch on a weekend to catch up and just talk (not about R of course). I know that some here have done that, but I'm not sure on timing, or how much is too much too soon. Any thoughts?
Me: 28 W: 28 Together: 9.5 years Married: 4 years Bomb dropped and W moved out: 6/15/14
