Just because the paperwork is finalized doesn't mean it's over forever.
My ex husband's parents are an example of that. They divorced when my ex H was in 4th grade. They each dated several other people and had their own lives. When H was 19 they started dating each other again, they moved in together a few years later and although they never remarried on paper they are in a committed relationship. H is 32 so I would say 13 years back together is pretty committed.
I wish the best for you, don't stop the changes for you!
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction