I have taken Ggrass's approach. I try not to look at W FB (although sometimes I do catch myself sneaking a peek) and I only post on mine things that are positive. Trips with my friends, my attempts at cooking, things about sports teams, etc. Looking at my page, you'd think nothing was wrong, I'm just living my life. No whiny or sad posts. No quotes, no motivational phases or inspirationals.

One word of caution I think with this though, is to not go overboard. Don't overshare, because then it may look like you are trying to hard.

My advice would be to not look at spouse's page, and either don't post or only post a few things that show you are getting on with your life and doing well.


Me: 28
W: 28
Together: 9.5 years
Married: 4 years
Bomb dropped and W moved out: 6/15/14