Again??!! When are you going to learn to develop patience??! If you cannot be patient for one month, think about being patient for the next 40 years of your marriage because there will be times when your kids and H will test your patience in various ways.
Why don't you learn how to be patient now and for the next few months for it will pay huge dividends down the road for YOU and the family?
You want to use TNT on a skittish squirrel NOW. I am sure you know how that'll play out. Not pretty at all for sure!
You are Wily E. Coyote to your H's roadrunner. I can picture you in my mind out in the desert trying out various Acme "tools" to 'trap' H.