Yesterday my h picked up the boys from school then waited for me at my parents' house.
Well I got there left my van and used h's car to ride together to the boys' soccer practice.
My mother told my dad that we'd all left together. My dad became horribly upset that my h had been in their house. My dad was waiting for my h with his shotgun loaded!!!
Well when we pulled up to the house my sister calls my cell to say my dad is waiting inside with a shotgun for my h. I tell my h to hurry up and leave while the boys and I go in the house. (my parents house is not in town...nearest neighbor is 2 miles away...so if my dad wanted to shoot h he could!!!)
Well when I got in my dad is just sitting there the gun was right on the table. We just went to the bedroom and waited...nothing happened.
I talked to my mom and she said my dad is expecting an apology from h for how he treated the boys and I. Well I relayed this to h and he says he is not apologizing to my dad. H said why should I apologize for YOU leaving? And h said because he was too scared to try again is why it was a year before h decided to come back. I said well can't you tell that to my dad...h said no you tell him.
So in the end my dad didn't say anything to me in the morning and my h is not going to talk with my dad.
I suppose I will have to tell my dad again that I appreciate how he wants to protect the boys and I but that I am going to get back together with my h. And that he should not put me in the middle of this but to be glad my h has decided to come back and that he's trying.
I hope my father will listen...he's just so very mad right now. I'm also scared that this will push my h away!
