Your h knows you aren't happy with the way things are. It could be a bit of bait ot perhaps he's feeling guilty. That's all mind reading. However, he knows you aren't thrilled with the arrangement.
There isn't a right answer in my opinion (but what do I know). You can either say "I've just been busy" (honest). Bigger question is how do you think you should respond?
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer