What really bugs me is the question I want to know the answer to...
Why my H will not leave the H, not file for D? I know it could be worse if he leaves the house.
But I really want to know in his mind what his reasons are for staying?

H has told me its for S14 and that he does not want me to struggle, mentally or emotionally or financially. Said its a hard time for S14 starting HS and being a teenager and H thinks it will be better he stay here with s14 to guide him along.

Does he not realize the mental and emotional struggle that I'm dealing with now?

I have no idea where my H is in his MLC or what ever he is going thru...

Wish i did not care!


Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW