CaliGuy I feel the same way about my H...dbing me better!
Nitty,
I've been reading a book "Excuse Me, Your Life is Waiting" by Lynn Grabhorn. It was recommended by one of the successful vets (I don't remember who). The book is about the Laws of Attraction and how if you think positively, good things will come your way. Kind of like dbing, being nice to your WAS. I'm not done with the book yet, but I've gotten to the good stuff of how to make yourself be positive. I've done this the past 2 days and have drawn H closer, I think.
I really like it and hope that it truly is helping, but more than anything, I'm happy! I love feeling this way. I've missed it for so long and now I want to hold on to it, even if things don't go the way I'm planning (but they will...PMA )
You've got to find the good even in bad situations. It's a really good read and kind of a crazy concept, but if it worked for a fellow dber, why not give it a try?
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile
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