My question is does this ever stop. I was always the one who had it my way or the highway. So this is kind of my 180. That I compromise more. Or is it that she will never be happy until she has every thing.
Her Issues of unhappiness has nothing to do with the stuff that is being divided up. It is b/c she is unhappy that she gets so upset over letting go of the stuff. WAW'S are self-centered about every area of life. They only see from their POV. And of course, the LBH'S are the targets for whatever.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
