Yesterday was fabulous! H and I ended up at Home Depot where he pointed out the trees and pavers he wants to put in at the house. He talked about the patio he wants to make in the back yard! He has all kinds of plans for our house...carpets, deck, patio, woodburning stove, etc. It was hard to contain my excitement!
On Sunday we went to the gym...on the way there he mentioned where the 2 bedroom apartments are at and what their floorplans are like....he's yet to mention WHEN moving in together will take place but he has plans for it apparently !
Today he goes to the bank to set up our joint account, I think!
I'm just sitting back watching...not showing my excitement but being appreciative of his efforts. I mention no plans myself but merely listen to his and ask casual questions. Let him do all the planning and talking. The boys asked last night when are we going to move in with dad...I say I don't know but we'll let dad tell us when and we won't be bugging dad about it. It's your dad's decision.