Bank accounts are separated...personal accounts each, one joint for bills. She's saying she's going to cancel her cell phone and buy a new plan that she will pay for. But that kind of says to me that she would rather pay for her own plan and continue the affair than stay on ours and break contact with the OM. She also plans on staying with a friend out of town for a few days after the weekend. I don't know what to think about that.
Why does it feel like these steps are making things worse?
