Well I'm not sure if I handled this the right way - h wanted to speak about the finances again. I told him I'd seen a L and outlined the advice I was given which was really in my favour . He said he'd rather we came to a mutual agreement which we could then get drawn up by L. He said the last thing he wanted was for me and kids to be worrying about money and be worse off but he could not continue to pay all of the mortgage.
After he left I felt a bit emotional and sent him a text saying I'm so sorry things have got this far between us and that I did not want any of this.
He did not respond.
What should I have done?


Me - 44 Husband - 47
D20, S18
BD - Aug 2013
Moved out - Jan 2014
OW discovered Jan 2014