No harm, no foul. I didn't think you did, I just wanted to be clear about what I was saying.

Even tho my kids were older, this was a big pill for me to swallow, although my H parented differently that didn't mean he was a bad parent.

Sometimes our stepping back creates space that the other person can step up and fill. We never know unless we create the space.

Some will step up, some won't.

We then have our answer.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss