I marvel at your wisdom...you put things in perspective every time! Thanks for replying to my post!!!!
Quote: Somehow, someway, you have to be less suspicious of his intentions every time he does something that doesn't cater to your level of satisfaction.
Yes, it works better when I don't jump the gun or read into everything.
Quote: is a guy who is finding his own way back to the M, while he maintains some sense of independance, which appears to be important to him.
Yes, one of his biggest complaints was my controlling behavior...or at least what he perceived as controlling.
Quote: You can either ACCEPT him for who he is and what he does, or cut him loose and find someone who fits your expectation level..
Yes, I need to go back to no expectations...or at least what the real important ones are....soccer gear is nothing to fuss about.
Quote: He didn't ask his friend to spend 10 days in Florida with him DID HE??
This is what ran through my head yesterday. He may have catered to his friend yesterday but he did my bidding for 10 days in Florida!!! So no big deal, I can let this go, I will let this go.
In the big scheme of things, this little bump is nothing to get all worked up about. I hope he got the impression that my not coming over there to get the gear was not that I was mad he ran his friend around, it was only that I was tired, too tired to drive 20 minutes out of my way for the gear.
If he says nothing, doesn't cop an attitude, I won't say anything about it more. If he does I'll just validate him and not bring any of my dumb suspicions out on the table.
