Wife decided to leave

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Okay will do, thanks so much.

I just contacted the wife of OM my W had EA with 3 years ago. She said she doesn't believe anything is going.

And I really don't think there's anyone new. I do believe its wanderlust. She has showed MANY signs of it. Re-writing our history, we never had "it", talked about soulmates etc etc

Again, my wife of of the first 9 years of our marriage would be shaking her head at these things.

I will really need to educate myself on acceptance, as I do not do well with that.

Thanks so much for the tips on tomorrows convo, I will report back.

Starsky I've read all of your stuff over the last 2 years, its very much appreciated to have you here