I 2nd the big GAL activity .... ironically I did take the Motorcycle course ... just for me, took all weekend. Then about a month later I pulled the trigger and bought the Harley I always wanted to get. Let me tell you ... the first ride I took on a weekend, I was singing songs as loud as I could in my helmet, probably looking like a total fool, but I was happy, not thinking about my sitch, thinking .. Why oh Why did I wait this long?
W still has no clue I have the bike, for now I just do not see any reason to share, no need to fight about it .. I did it for ME .. not to piss her off. I have a friend who hits me up often to go for rides .. shcedule has prohibited that .. but tonight we are riding together to the softball game.
My point ... Doing this one bucket list item made me fell like me again, I was doing my own thing ... was extremely liberating
