Just my paltry 2 cents. That additional paragraph sounds a bit antagonistic to me. The "step up" or else bit. Here is the deal. I don't know if you and your h will R. However, regardless of what happens, you do share kids. So while I get your frustrations, I don't think saying "step up" or I will take legal action will be the best course of action. You can't *make* your h be a better father. Yes, he should pull his weight, however, ultimately his R with the kids is his.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer