Quote: I don't know if I should let this become an issue or if it even is one...did he actually put his friend before us?
Well, suppose he DID put his friend before you, how does that change things?? This isn't anything new, he seems to have his own order of importance with things since he moved out, and that is perfectly normal, otherwise he'd move back..
He didn't ask his friend to spend 10 days in Florida with him DID HE??
Somehow, someway, you have to be less suspicious of his intentions every time he does something that doesn't cater to your level of satisfaction. This is a guy who is finding his own way back to the M, while he maintains some sense of independance, which appears to be important to him. You can either ACCEPT him for who he is and what he does, or cut him loose and find someone who fits your expectation level..
I say give him a break, soccer gear is nothing to stir a fuss about..
Ask yourself what the WINNING Cindy would do...by now you should know HOW TO HANDLE THINGS LIKE THIS..
