Blindsided but finding my way (3)

[labug]

I see postings where some have suggested you *make * the other parent step up.

rpp, I'm just catching up on your sitch, so I don't know if this is ground that's been covered before. I'm not suggesting that you "make" him do anything and I hope it didn't come across that way. We know we can't make anyone to anything, right?

But we can get out of the way. Your H did originally ask for 50% so he must have wanted it.

This is less about him and more about you and your D.