Originally Posted By: BC39
Thanks guys,

I hear ya. If you told my story to 100 people, 99 would say there must be an OM.

She wants to have lunch tomorrow to discuss separation etc. Should I continue to validate (which I've done for a while) or let her know what I REALLY think?


Validate, listen, don't make any decisions. The fine art of "Hmmm, I'm not sure how I feel about that. I'll have to think about that, and get back to you."

Two ears, one mouth.


Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)