I hear ya. If you told my story to 100 people, 99 would say there must be an OM.
She wants to have lunch tomorrow to discuss separation etc. Should I continue to validate (which I've done for a while) or let her know what I REALLY think?
M-38 W-32 D7, S4 M-10 BD-May '12 S for 1 month-June '12 Reconcile, Piecing
