Hi Job, I agree. I really need to not communicate with him as much. He really needs to know he can't count on me. He needs to know what it is like without me! He hasn't because we are still very much in each others lives. I am going to try that now as difficult as it is with kids but I don't need the chit chat and stuff like that. I will just keep it as little as possible. Here is what it's like. So I said yesterday, he called me about D. This am he called her on the way to school. He asked her how she was feeling? She hit her head yesterday pretty bad. She said it was still sore. 15 mins later he called me and asked me??!! I really feel he hates me but can't leave me alone?? Always has to have a hold? I need to pull the plug on that one and let him go down the drain. I think it is the same for me. I need to let go to full get on with me. I have dated and I don't think of him all the time but I do still get sad. And have some hope in the back of my head. Thanks
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.