Oh my goodness. I seem to have touched a nerve. I apologize for offending you. I think I'm providing insight but you're reading it as "trying to find fault with everything [you] do and say." I will stop.

Just to clarify, I never said you were "an evil person" or "a heartless jerk." I used the word "seem" because I was describing a perception, and it was in reference to your behavior in this specific instance, not your person.

I also complimented your simple condolence. It was appropriate and, in my opinion, sufficient.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.