U Turn , I also want you to concentrate on your business. Remember how you want her to see you . Strong , confident , independant . This will show her the old you again and remind her what she loved about you . A failing business is not attractive . Plus diving into it will keep you focused on the rest of your life instead of your marriage which Im sure you ve come to realize now isnt everything . Your children are everything , you are everything . Women come and go the same as friends . I know you love her but what would you do if she passed away ??? you have to be able to move on . Especially for your kids .And if you want to keep your marriage its extra important to keep healthy and keep moving forward . Get the business back to where it should be . Im in for the long haul and you can be too .


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )