BOB ( not real name) here. I'm not going thru a divorce but my girlfriend left me and said not to stop by her house. I just went thru my 2nd D 2years ago. ya, I didn't have the computer to guide me in any direction on that one.(I did EVERYTHING wrong in trying to stop the D) I am still learning. I've already had 2 coaching sessions with a DB coach. I don't text unless GF does first. Sometimes GF calls after a few texts. Small talk,happy talk. I make every effort to let her do all the talking.I haven't been saying ILY, but am I to say it back when she initiates ILY? She is a GREAT woman but has a history of being abused ( all the way from childhood) I have to see her @ a company function saturday. I think I'm ready for it.I'm learning patients,patients,patients. I think the abused part changes alot. Yes, this is my first post.
