Social Media Question: How does a LBS who is in LRT handle the social media aspect? What I see happening is that we are not really as disconnected as we used to be because we see each others posts, pics, and activity. It's also awkward because many of our friends are watching and involved too. Some days it seems it's the war of the "likes" for some of them. Someone will post something along the lines of "Love is a choice not dictated by feelings" and alot of my friends will "like" it and hers seem to ignore it. Other posts may be things like "The first step is the hardest in your journey to a new life..." blah blah and her gang of friends will "like" and make indirect comments about her new situation that encourage her to stay on a path of destruction that wrecks our marriage and tears apart our family.
On one extreme, I could just block her (going darker). On the other I could comment on her posts an alternative point of view (I know this is not a good idea as do others).
So far if she posts something positive, I "like" it. I may even comment. She has posted some positive about me (like good job making family night fun) and I "like" that. So far I've kept these comments to a minimum. I've posted some things I'm doing with the kids and she normally "likes" that.
Any advice here? If used properly, I think it could be helpful. Just curious what others have experienced and what's worked, and what to avoid.
Thanks!
Me:40 W:39 M:Dec 95 Split: Jul 14 W Filed: 9/16/14 Several Children (including adopted)