Tricare will only cover therapy for diagnosed psychiatric diagnoses, at least that's what I got from their site. If we were to go and get such a diagnosis then it would probably be covered. I'm having a hard time believing her as well, and I really don't see an end to the OM contact, since they work together. Right now I'm on R&R after deployment and am scared as hell to leave her alone when I go back to work in a week, both from an infidelity standpoint and the possibility of her hurting herself.
You are correct in assuming we have no kids, just pets. I have been consistent in telling her that I am completely willing to work on things on the condition that she cut ties with the OM, but again, they work together. When the relationship was good, it was great, and that may be the only thing keeping me around.
At this point I'm questioning everything about who I thought she was. I would hope it's a combination of the first two, but I just don't know anymore. Everybody on the outside thinks we're the perfect couple, with the world in our hands and great future prospects, but it's all a show at this point. Thanks for all your help, [censored] that there are so many who have to endure this.
