Also know that retribution by trying to hurt AP is not on your road to happiness. You have bigger fish to fry. Time spent on AP is time wasted.
My primary intent would be to scare the AP off. The AP has shut down her FB account during the D process, so she must be paranoid about something, right?
I live in a fault state, and adultery is grounds for a fault divorce. Since they're living together, I think it should be fairly easy to prove...
M 16 T 17 W moved in w/ AP (OW) 5/14 ILYBNIL 5/14 A discovered 6/14 D papers served via USPS 8/14 Filed my response 9/14 D final 5/15...