It doesn't have to be a big confrontation. You can quietly say to him something like, I'm very sad that the marriage I thought we had is over. I feel hurt and disrespected by our current situation and I can't continue in it, I can't be in a M with 3 people.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss