I spent Friday, Saturday and Sunday at H's place. I'm having such a hard time believing this is for real...I feel as though any time we have an argument that h will call the whole thing off!
Here's positives for the weekend:
1. Friday were suppose to go to the movies but ended up staying in to watch movies.
2. We and it was so agressive!
3. We snuggle afterwards!
4. Saturday morning we ML again.
5. H makes us breakfast!
6. Go outside to get in separate vehicles but van door breaks...we all ride over with h.
7. H takes us to lunch.
8. Then he returns to work and lets me use his car!!!
9. I pick him up from work and we go to the store...shopping! He asked if there was anything I needed said no but then he ended up buying all my items cause I left my wallet in the car!
10. We walked around the store looking at household stuff...h even told me he was wanting to buy an outdoor stove. You can't have those at his apartment!
11. H told me his routine...buys 2 movies, 2 cd's every payday.
12. H wanted to buy a cheap golfing towel and glove..I gave the suggestion that if you were only going to golf once and a while you should go all out. H bought the expensive Callaway towel and glove! 13. We got to h's place and watched a movie as a family.
14. He makes popcorn for us. He and I share a bowl and he offers me some dip!
15. At one point I made to sit on the floor alone with the blanket and h called me over and we snuggled. (Maybe he was after my blanket !) Ended up all of (kids too) under the blanket....was very nice!!
16. We and this time it is not so agressive...he took his time!
17. Sunday morning we woke up late and I took us all out for breakfast.
18. We spent some time at the mall. H took me over to look at refrigerators...seems he wants to get a new one.
19. We go back to his place, he fixes the van door. I do the laundry. We all wash his car.
20. He bought some stuff for the van's carpet! How nice!
21. He offered to wash the van but since I go down a dirt road to my mom's I said he didn't have to...he said ok.
22. Sunday night he cooks us dinner. He actually didn't have a piece of chicken for me so I was going to go get my own dinner but he said absolutely not...he said he's feed us all. And he did.
23. H and I sit on the couch reading a magazine together. We talk some about the trip to Florida.
24. H calls his mom to try to locate a restaurant in Florida he wants us to go to.
Lots of positives.
Now the negatives: My h had some difficulties with the kids. At one point during the soccer game, he yelled at me that none of us listen to him and he knew where the boys got that from. I just told him to chill out and that I would get the boys covered...h was upset that the boys did not have more protection against the cold. H was upset too that the boys were so rowdy at his place, yelled at them a couple of times. Also yelled at me at the carwash, cause I let the partially dressed boy run to h's apartment. H said do you think that was smart to let him run off in nothing but shorts, it is 60 degrees outside! I just looked at h while he talked told him sorry I'd go get boy and he could just stand there with us and get muddier! (not my best moment). H was upset at how boys washed his car, he finally ended up doing it himself. This AM h screamed at oldest son because he didn't get his shoes on after the third time of being told to put his shoes on.
Once h was looking for the remote....said well ok looks like I just looking by MYSElF! I calmly pointed out son had found it for him.
Also said well son broke a glass...what was it 8 when WE started! He mentioned something as a WE!!!
I guess this is not anything new...h didn't sit well with boys' rowdiness before but it feels weird to have h get mad like he's going to tell me it's over because of it!
I dread getting in the car for the 17 hour drive to Florida with h and the kids!!
and it was so agressive! 
