And when you do, be prepared for W to complain that you're 'punishing' her.
Of course. With a big dollop of "I *was* going to consider reconciling with you, but *now* you've blown any chance you had!" on top.
Background noise. Just put on the spew jacket and learn the fine art of "I can understand how you feel that way. I'm doing what I feel I need to do to protect myself."