My issue is that I found out these things by checking on her, which is before I started DBing. This is against the DB rules. Since I have read the DB book, I have stopped all checking (spying). If I bring this to her attention, she will feel that I have been spying on her. For example, the other day day, her computer was acting up and she accused me of putting spyware on it. After doing some diagnostics on her computer she found out that her hard drive is going bad. She never did apologize for her accusations and I just let it go.
W-44,M-57 Married 20 D-17,S-13 W and I own our own business and work together.
